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Well, to quote an old Barry Manilow song, it looks like we made it. (That’s one of the cheesy lines I’ve ever written.) Everyday in January, we’ve talked about moving forward in your life, about getting unstuck, about pursuing a preferred future. The time has come to be reminded of what is most basic and …

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I know I’ve said this before. But. Having only one option is a pretty good description of what it means to be stuck. So it stands to reason that a good way to get unstuck is to generate a lot of options and possibilities. Also this is a good time to remember what we’ve talked …

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Reality. I didn’t start with it. I didn’t begin by asking you questions about the current state of things. Nor should you. It can be a little overwhelming. But eventually you have to come to it. You can escape facing reality but you can’t escape the consequences of facing reality. So the question is one …

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Progress and growth are sometimes difficult to put a finger on, to see them clearly and not mistake them for something else. They may not look like you thought they would. A monk was asked what he did before he was enlightened and he replied, “I chopped wood and I carried water.” “So what do …

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You’ve heard of people having “A-ha!” moments. Most of my “A-ha!” moments are “Duh!” moments when I remember something of which I have lost sight. I was reading a blog this morning about the type of training that really makes a difference in people’s lives. Of course, THE determining factor is not the material being …

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Ego. I’m not talking Freud here. You could substitute the word “self” and you have it. We do two things with self. We either try to promote it or we try to protect it. One of those–the first–is otherwise known as pride. The second is fear. Either one will block you from getting unstuck. Pride …

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